So apparently this guy told my friend he didn't have any girlfriend although she asked him many times. Then suddenly his friend blurted out in front of her to him saying "Oh so how's your girlfriend?". She was like what the eff man! He didn't even have the guts to make eye contact with her and now he's trying to avoid seeing her. Obviously she is so upset knowing she was "the other girl" because she would never ever do that. Some guys. Bleaghh.
" A lot of people out there are really good at hiding things and making it seem like everything is normal so you don't suspect anything. Usually things don't work out, not because of the cheating situation. It could just be compatibility. A lot of times you just have somebody in your life because you feel like you need someone in your life. You feel like you need a girlfriend or a boyfriend. Those are your own insecurities.
When you truly truly love somebody, and it's a healthy love, you always want to make sure you're healthy yourself before entering a relationship and give that person your time. That's why they call it dating. Dating doesn't mean we're sleeping together. Dating doesn't mean I'm your girlfriend, you're my boyfriend. It means that we are exclusively dating each other trying to get to know each other, figure out each other's personalities, see if we click, if our morals are intact - all those things. And then you can graduate to the next level of the relationship."
Like seriously, if you're not ready and can't commit to someone, then don't be in a relationship. It's that easy. Thank god my friend found out earlier. I'm the type that when I like/love someone, I will only like/love that person. And it's hard for me to just let our memories fade away like that. But I mean I'm glad and happy now. Although we don't talk face to face anymore, sometimes we talk on msn or ym or something and it feels good. But yeah I know some guys are just plain A-holes, but most of them are nice especially the guys here in Mac.
Study Math everyone! Freaking hard I'm telling ya. Keep smiling people. (^.^)V
CherryBee xx
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